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Falsche "Gleichung"

Ferienzeit = Erholung

Für die meisten neurodivergenten Familien sogar

Ferienzeit ≠ Erholung

Große Stolperfalle:

"Jetzt haben die/wir endlich mal Zeit für uns!" Und alle packen ihre Hoffnung unausgesprochen hinein.
Wenn das gut geht, Glück gehabt. 😎

#Familie #Ferien #Erholung #Autismus #Adhs #HSP

(Wie sehr ich mich als Kind nach 'einfach mal keine Ansprüche an mich' gesehnt habe und nicht bekommen habe.❤️‍🩹)
#AuDHD

Not to be too intense about it (I will).

But suddenly I can't stop feeling the fact that I haven't cried in someone's arms for nearly four years.

And I haven't called a parent (there aren't any to call).

There's a limited extent to which I can be under pressure, keep it controlled, be lonely, and give. Of course.

But I can apparently push through a lot and not notice. Until it hits like ten trucks.

I know it's true for the collective too. It's lonely out there.

Shitty day at work today, my hypothesis is that my medication kicked in during the call we had this morning.
My brain was not cooperative when I had to stop talking and start writing code.

A friend wants to date again and I offered my help by posting their ad to Fedi. Plz share and if interested, I‘m happy to establish contact.

„Smoking hot #trans babe (white, #nonbinary, #AuDHD ) looking 4 smoking hot trans babe (25-40). I offer cooking Chinese food every other day if you cook Korean food on the other days. I would love lots of cuddles and enjoying weird art and music stuff with you :3 It would be great if you communicate not only by meowing (but some meowing is lovely).“

Ich packe gerade die Sachen vom Easterhegg aus um die Koffer für die Reha ein zu packen.

Gut, dass ich schon ne Liste habe, das macht es leichter.
Jetzt muss ich „nur“ noch entscheiden, welche Wolle, welche Bücher und wieviel ich mitnehme.

Und weil es ne ADHS-Reha ist noch Fidget-Toys nachdrucken. Geht ja nicht, dass ich da keine dabei habe….

Continued thread

To all my fellow #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD and #AUDHD double-winners, I’m curious if you too have felt you had to “make yourself smaller”?

For me it was a survival mechanism…much like masking and passing. And just as damaging.

That’s what drove me to write this essay. I want more of us #neurodivergent people to take up space. To be who we are fully. Not who makes others comfortable.

We need more neurodivergent joy and safety in this world.

@actuallyautistic