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#submissive

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Aby--not fast, just furious

There's a group on Fetlife called Sadists and Masochists. They are Very Clear in the rules that the group is about sadism and masochism, NOT about D/s or any other power relations and that sadists are not necessarily dominant or tops, masochists are not necessarily subs or bottoms.

A woman posted in it and literally states in the post that she loves humiliation and pain play but has absolutely no interest in submission.

The entire comment thread:
sounds like you obviously have a deep desire to submit 🤔

My comment:
Jesus on toast, people are fucking stupid.
It's honestly like some of you were schooled by geese.

_____

Guess who got the 24 hour time out. 🙄

#kink#bdsm#Ds
Aby--not fast, just furious

Get yourself a submissive who's a carpenter..

I was having a bit of a complain to him yesterday that our shower has started losing its silicone sealing and water is starting to run out between the bottom of the shower screen and the tile flooring, and how much I hate having to approach the real estate for repairs like that because it is always a risk that the owners will decide to just sell because they are annoyed with organising repairs (especially with the housing market being so inflated atm).

He popped past this morning to have his cock cage locked up for the day, and took a look at it - "yeah, that'll take me about an hour to fix for you, if you'll let me?"

Let you? Baby, I'll have you do it naked while I watch with a crop in my hand. Let's make this fun for everyone involved..

#kink#bdsm#Ds
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Aby--not fast, just furious

I snuck a pair of my pretty french knickers into Greg's bag when he was leaving, with the idea that he could use them to edge while I watched once he was back home in the UK.

Well, during our video call yesterday he disappeared for a minute and came back actually wearing them.. and wew boi did I learn pretty fucking quickly that I have a new kink 😆

(also, gods fucking bless men who will try something fun and new just because they think you might enjoy it instead of getting caught up in toxic masculinity)

#bdsm#kink#submissive
Aby--not fast, just furious

I was going to post something the other day about how I had a submissive until about 10 months ago, when we stopped our dynamic.

He is married and his wife had asked him to stop his kink stuff for a time to refocus his energy and time in his marriage and family. He and I had talked when we first started with our thing, and we're very open about how his relationship with his family, and my relationship with Greg, were our priorities and that was how we wanted it. I don't usually do hierarchical relationships, but this suited everyone involved and was a deliberate decision... whereas my issue with hierarchy is that it's often not through deliberate choice, but is just followed because that's "the way it's meant to be".

For some reason the last couple of weeks I'd started thinking about him a fair bit. I had a couple of dreams that he was in, and when I sat down and had a real think about why I was thinking about him I realised it was because I was missing him.

Then, yesterday.. out of the blue, he messaged me on Fetlife. He's reactivated his account, we're chatting again. Things with his wife and family are great and they've agreed that he can go explore his kink side again.

Sometimes the universe is an interesting place.

#relationship#dating#NonMonogamy
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